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SOSSI DERIAN's avatar

OMG! This is big stuff! I worked for the SOTS in CT. Where the first merger of Insurance Co.’s and Banking occurred. And I thought that was the beginning of the end! HS! This is scary stuff. And there’s no oversight as there is for LLC’s and CO’s. Great insight and info Greg! This stuff is scary shit!

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Since first seeing "All That Jazz" back in the 80s, which is a FANTASTIC film about/not about Bob Fosse, during which was introduced to me Elisabeth Kübler-Ross' five stages of grief, I've realized that the same five stages apply to LOTS of other things: relationships ending, the constant travails of politicians that pretend to work "for the people" while lining their own pockets, and now the invasion of Big Tech into our lives.

The five stages are: anger, denial, bargaining, depression, and acceptance, not necessarily in that order but usually, and always ending with acceptance. As far as Big Tech is concerned, the operative word being "BIG," one is prone to finally reach the level of "fuck it!" which is the new acceptance. We can be angry or depressed about it, and still accept it. We can even try and bargain with it -- I still remember my open-mouthed shock at being presented with TWO choices for ad serving; either let the Acme Store know where you live and your ads will be personalized, or don't and you'll just get generic ads. My shock was that I couldn't choose "NO ads! Where's the no ads choice? WTF?" Can you imagine? Ahh, the late 90s.... LOL

The truth is that if we are to be citizens of the online 21st century, anything less than "acceptance" is an exercise in wheel-spinning in quicksand. We can sign up for the "Do Not Call" lists, but we still get calls, "we noticed, after the hailstorm, that your roof might need some repair, can we come out and give you a FREE estimate?" Hang up. Block number. We can "unsubscribe" from email junk, but is it REALLY unsubscribing, or is it just telling the offending emailer that they've hit a live email address? It's a quandary.

I'm not trying to be a complete Debbie Downer and have already added "Containing Big Tech" to my Amazon Wish List, but when some of us (most of us) have spent 25+ years putting our information online, it would be dumb to think that some stinky capitalist out there wouldn't figure out a way to monetize that same information. Serving ads to people are a multi-billion-dollar business, but there are ways to lessen their intrusions with Ad Blockers and such. The info is out there, and everyone has it, and more importantly KEEPS it forever. It's BIGGER than anyone, and though we may fight it, for sanity's sake, it's probably best to do what you can to protect yourself, but otherwise accept it.

(ALSO, because Big Tech is notoriously unreliable, always copy a long comment like this to your clipboard before posting, in case Substack goes down like it did this morning when I hit Post. Stupid computers.)

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