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Maureen Osborne's avatar

Great points, and I agree about the abortion issue. Since abortion is a trigger word, I like to try to frame this as the government trying to butt into peoples' private lives. And if they start in about the "rights of the unborn," I suggest expanding this to talk about the shameful lack of support for "Born" children and their parents. I recommend using today's Substack piece by Jess Piper as a starting point - powerful stuff. https://jesspiper.substack.com/p/back-to-work-14-days-postpartum

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Too often like is confused with respect, the latter the more important. When Streisand comes on my car radio, I immediately switch stations. Her voice is jarring to me, don't like. Should she appear on a talk show, I listen attentively, I have huge respect for her point of view. When I vote I do so for whom I respect, not like. If I respect and like the person, all the better.

Everything else, Democracy versus Autocracy, good versus evil and so on are second to respect. If you respect someone chances are good right things will emerge.

When discussing 45 with a MAGA believer, one simple question. Ok you believe in his way forward, however do you respect the man, can you firmly believe he is good to his word? Do you respect him?

Generally the discussion moves from 45 to 46, a much easier defense for me than the other person justifying 45's batshit agenda. NC Senate race 2022 Tillis v Cal Cunningham, big fan of Cal until word of his odious behavior spread. Lost all respect for him. Tillis, never liked him but did respect him. Loss of respect for Cal, continued respect for Thom, vote Thom. Guess what? He has proven to be a sane Senator, seeking bipartisan solutions. Respect wins the day.

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